{"id":261,"date":"2018-10-09T17:04:43","date_gmt":"2018-10-09T17:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/?p=261"},"modified":"2019-09-02T18:34:54","modified_gmt":"2019-09-03T01:34:54","slug":"25-years-sober","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/25-years-sober\/","title":{"rendered":"25 Years &#8211; So Grateful!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-804\" src=\"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21.jpg\" alt=\"#freepeople #kimono #whitedenimoutfit #springstyle\" width=\"3940\" height=\"5910\" srcset=\"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21.jpg 3940w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21-1000x1500.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ootd0405-21-275x413.jpg 275w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3940px) 100vw, 3940px\" \/><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">25 Years &#8211; One Day at a Time<\/h2>\n<p>10\/9\/93 my life changed forever. Of course, at the time, I had no idea how monumental that moment would be. It felt different, but believe me there had been other attempts. My life had spiraled of kilter and was heading for a crash.<\/p>\n<p>I had rallied just enough to make a move to San Diego to finish college. My small hometown was no longer a safe place for me. But within a month of arriving in my new town, my old demons found me and once again I was heading for the wall.<\/p>\n<p>Twenty-five years is a long time to do anything especially something you thought was impossible. The only way I can describe it is Divine intervention. God did for me what I could not do for myself. You see, I am a drug addict and alcoholic and I have not had a drink or drug in 9125 days.<\/p>\n<p>In 25 years, so much life happens whether you want it to or not. I have stayed sober through it all. It hasn\u2019t always been pretty. I have had to come to terms with my depression and anxiety including one especially rough row when my mother died five years ago. I practice progress not perfection. But, every day I chose not to drink is a miracle and I am grateful for it.<\/p>\n<p>I have lived my life in anonymity for 25 years. I chose to write this because when I started StyleDahlia, I promised myself I would share my life with you all, in a true and authentic way. I could not just share the decorations of my life without sharing the parts of my foundation. I have shared my story individually with others who suffer and helped them when I can. My hope is that in sharing my story on a larger scale, I can help someone if I can. In 2015, over 20 million people met the criteria for substance abuse disorder.* That is more than all the people suffering with all type of cancer combined. I am sure all of you know someone affected by drug and alcohol addiction. But there is hope. From the first day I made the choice to not drink way back in 1993 to right now, I have not had the desire, nor have I picked up a drink or drug. I am not special in any way. My sobriety is a result of working a program and being graced by God. I have been given the gift of sobriety. I am grateful in this moment and I practice living my life one day at a time.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to know more about me. Check out my <a href=\"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/bio\/\">about me<\/a> page. If you want to know more about addiction and recovery please check out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aa.org\/\">Alcoholics Anonymous<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>*From Facing Addiction in America \u2013 The Surgeon General\u2019s Report on Alcohol, Drugs and Health<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-262\" src=\"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/25image.jpg\" alt=\"25 Years\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/25image.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/25image-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/25image-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/styledahlia.com\/staging\/1660\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/25image-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>25 Years &#8211; One Day at a Time 10\/9\/93 my life changed forever. 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